Living in Germany during World War II was an increasingly difficult and harrowing experience, particularly as the war progressed. My mother, who lived in Düsseldorf, rarely spoke about her memories, but a few details stand out vividly.

Friendships could become dangerous. If you were associated with Jews or anyone the regime targeted, you risked disappearing along with them. Fear permeated everyday life, as people were aware that loyalty to the state was paramount.

Disloyalty could mean dire consequences. My mother recalled that failing to salute Hitler's image could lead to losing your job or worse. In those moments, many whispered “so hoch die Scheiße” under their breath, expressing their resentment and fear in secret.

The impact of the war lingered long after. Decades later, she could still recognize aircraft by the sound of their engines. The noise of a Lancaster bomber triggered a sense of anxiety, even if it was just on television.

Human life often felt expendable. During air raids, discipline demanded that one carry heavy items like typewriters to the shelters, underscoring how material possessions were prioritized over people.

After the war, she kept bars of soap everywhere—drawers, cupboards, you name it. Soap was a rare luxury during the conflict, a stark reminder of scarcity.

The war's effects profoundly shaped the German psyche, leaving scars that the nation continues to grapple with today.

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